A sister in a WeChat group talked about herself Graduation is coming soon. Yesterday she went to a nightclub with her best friend, and then she was crying and shouting on the street in the middle of the night, so her voice was as hoarse as Yang Kun’s today. I remember that when I graduated, things were calm and I didn’t do anything crazy. Drinking with my brothers has always been normal. It felt like Ethiopians Sugardaddy as if graduation was just a common procedure. In the end, I packed my luggage alone. At that time, listening to yellow, I suddenly started crying like an idiot Ethiopians Escort. I have always been a fool with a severe insensitivity. Maybe it was not until that time that I knew what I was saying goodbye to. Farewell. Although we all write Ethiopians Escort words like “friendship is always there” in each other’s classmate books – we don’t understand that now is Isn’t it still popular among classmates to record things like thisEthiopians Sugardaddy‘s stuff has already been exchanged on everyone’s weibo – but it still lost contact inexplicably. The once lively atmosphere was gone, replaced by silence. It’s not that I don’t want to get in touch, it’s just that I’m afraid that when I get in touch, I’ll only have one sentence: “Long time no see.” “It’s not bad now.” Then I have nothing to say. Everyone is afraid that the former friendship will become so superficial, so they simply stop contacting each other. Also becauseEthiopians Sugardaddy gradually began to move towards their own livesEthiopia Sugar Daddy’s career trajectory, when I think about it occasionally, Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps yEthiopia Sugar Daddyou going. Just afraid of being disturbed. The girl who got up at six o’clock just to see her; the best friend who stayed up late at night smoking together downstairs and the meal he owed me; the girl who stayed with me for a long time and suddenly lost touch with me when I was falling out of loveEthiopians EscortMother; I hugged my crying buddy during the meal. I really never saw him again after that. 二 I briefly stayed at Maoben for half a year. I immediately bought a ticket alone and waited for their concert with great joy. As a result, my wallet was stolen on the tram, along with the concert ticket. Reluctant to go home, I wandered around there until early morning. Who knew that I couldn’t catch the last train after wandering around, so I had no choice but to sit on the steps and wait for dawn. Melbourne is a city that never sleeps in the early morning. From time to time, ghost guys and girls who hang out in nightclubs pass by, and then a middle-aged man in a suit from ET Escorts He sat down next to me and started chatting with me. He had just finished working overtime at the company. His car was borrowed and his friend let him go. He missed the last train and finally saw me on the steps. So we went to a place similar to a small Qingba bar to chat until the next morning. Now I still remember Ethiopia Sugar his appearance, but I don’t remember the specific content of our chat. I only remember one sentence: “itisgreattoseesomEthiopia Sugar Daddyeonelikemewholookssobad.hah.” There were a few days when I came home from the street very late, If I see a grandma selling potatoes on the street, I will buy a few. On New Year’s Eve, I went home after drinking with my partner, thinking that I wouldn’t run into her. As a result, I saw her inside when I turned the corner. I knew how cold it was on New Year’s Eve, so I had no intention of blaming her children and didn’t want to ask about her suffering, so I bought a few more and told her noEthiopians Sugardaddy is gone. But she insisted on changing money to me at the store next to her. She also told me that it was very dangerous in the morning and I should go home early. The little girl we met on the trip, we were very fond of each other at that timeWe are happy, but we also know that our companions will be separated after a while on the journey. ET Escorts left each other’s contact information, saying that we would come back here in a year. If we can still meet, we will be together. After that, we persisted in the habit of sending postcards to each other for a long time, but a year later, none of us mentioned it. Sophisticated agreement. I thought I had forgotten them a long time ago, but I still remembered them at some point. These people have no chance to meet again. 三 The same is true for people who meet unexpectedly, and the same is true for Ethiopians Sugardaddythose who have lived in life. The girl who had been together for three years fell in love with each other very much when we were in love. She said that she could not separate us at all, and vowed to get married after graduation. Then they suddenly started arguing, and she forgot the specific reason. She suddenly said: Let’s calm down for a while, Leng Life has no limitations, exEthiopians Escortcept the ones you make. If you’re not moving forward, you’re falling back. After you’re done, go find the other person. Unexpectedly, this period of time was as long as a fucking lifetime. It is difficult to meet people who have lost their fate, even in the same city, so I never saw her again. For a period of time, I will suddenly have a good relationship with some people, and even the method of getting to know them will suddenly be inexplicable. At that time, we sang and played together, drank and got drunk, looked at girls and talked about emotions. Then suddenly everything disappeared. It always seems impossible until it’s done. If you don’t contact each other for one day, two days, or three days, gradually, you will become dispensable people in each other’s lives. Thinking about it is helpless, but it is just helpless. Later, I started to think about why I couldn’t remember Ethiopia Sugar Daddy in junior high school.Who is the person sitting in the last row? The best revenge is massiET Escortsve succeeded. I only saw a few but can remember a lot. face person. Who understands. Ethiopia Sugar Daddy Those who are not satisfied with their lovers always try to do something but still end up with no results; those who meet unexpectedly People, the feeling of being together is so natural, but there is still no connection; those who have loved and hatedEthiopia Sugar Daddy‘s people have gone through a lot and still left. Parting seems to always be the fate that must be faced when we meet. But I wrote this down and after carefully reviewing the people I met in the past, I began to understand: Everyone’s life is a process: you never know how to cook and then become more comfortable; from being at a loss at the beginning of your life to being well-organized now; From the most basic inability to get used to separation to the final peace; from beingEthiopians Escorthas gone from excessive madness to now wary. In this irreversible process, we can only settle, move forward, and become another person. This person may mature or struggle. I hope you can become someone you don’t hate. And what plays a very important role in this is the people you meet. Maybe he just happened to be by your side at a certain time when you were sad, or maybe he was always there for you when you were sick. Next to you, maybe you don’t even know his name. The world ET Escorts is so unEthiopians Sugardaddy sometimes Just be fair, some people are trying so hard to get into your world and all you remember is strangersEthiopia Sugar DaddyA silhouette of a person that some people lovedEthiopia Sugar DaddyYou have been favoring Opportunities for many years Ethiopians Sugardaddydon’t happen, you create them. A few faces of another person. It’s just so unfair, and we can only learn to deal with it. So I believe more and more that everyone has his own meaning in your life, even if he can only accompany you for a while, maybe you meet just to say goodbye. At least he resonates with you at some point, making you feel that life is not so difficult. And we must eventually start to get used to a life without classes today. Do something today that your future self will thank you for., learn to crawl around. As you graduate, the things left behind will become less and less, but they will become more and more important. Fortunately, with you, I can recall those years together, old friend. This is more important than anything else. In short, some people were never seen again. And to those who can still accompany me here, I would like to thank you 11,000,000 times.
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